Friday, May 25, 2012

Exactamundo.

It’s worth noting that you can devote your life to community service and be a total schmuck. You can spend your life on Wall Street and be a hero. Understanding heroism and schmuckdom requires fewer Excel spreadsheets, more Dostoyevsky and the Book of Job.

More where that came from here.  

Wednesday, May 16, 2012

the field where I love to lie

Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing there is a field.  
I'll meet you there.
When the soul lies down in that grass the world is too full to talk about.

― Rumi 

{clockwise - starting top-left: 1. whittling via squeeze bottle, 2. again, 3. purdy, 4. frivolity, 5.this-is-why-we-can't-have-nice-things}


 It's weird that the season of living in Baltimore is coming to a close.  I feel like I spent a good portion of the time scurrying - to find a job, get settled and build community.  Years two/three have been the most rewarding- as we slowly started setting roots and developing some authentic relationships.

Yet, in spite of how much I've loved our new community - I was reminded this past weekend (and over the past month or two) of the difference between new and old friends.  I love the friendship-honeymoon that comes with burgeoning relationships, and the refreshment of meeting new people that you feel as close with as those who you've known for ages.  But there's something unique about the bliss of spending hours whittling the day away with the people who know you best.

Moving away from your hometown generally leads you to build your closest friendships with other people who are so-inclined as to move away/around as well.  Although the pang of missing friends can be sharp, the joy of the reunion is far sweeter.

Hurrah for summertime weddings, reunions and adventures.



Tuesday, May 8, 2012

hem and haw.



There is nothing like returning to a place that remains unchanged to find the ways in which you yourself have altered.


Nelson Mandela 
in 'A Long Walk to Freedom'